Friday, January 12, 2007

Lines, lines, lines... I needed to change more dollars to rubles today. I did it while we were waiting for our court appointment. (Dad was taking a nap.) The bank was nearby – a three block walk. I tried my best to look Russian – I kept my head down while walking and kept at a brisk pace. I tried to exude assertiveness! (This was my first walk alone in Tver.) There were about eight people standing in line in front of me. It took ten minutes to get to the cashier. Then, she said I was in the wrong window. I went to the correct window and stood behind two people. Ten minutes later, I said “dollars into rubles, please” in Russian – at least, that's what I think I said! The cashier smiled and nodded. It took her about five minutes to enter my passport information, check the ten $50 bills that I gave her three times with UV light and another scanner, count the rubles three times, and hand-write a receipt. Crazy inefficiency! No wonder everything takes so long!

Also, on the way to the bank you can see the brand new Hotel Osnabruk next to an empty lot full of garbage. The house next to this lot is probably 100 years old, with wood siding in need of paint. In general, the houses are in disrepair. Typical homes have ornate window trim painted white, which is beautiful but odd next to the simple construction of the rest of the house. It looks like cake frosting on a dirty, old shoe box. Across the street from the hotel, an old house is missing 30% of the roof. But, some of the windows look new. People here live in very poor conditions. It's quite a juxtaposition to see poverty next to a four-star hotel. We also saw many people carrying buckets of water from a public water spigot across the street. We think they were walking to their homes, in the middle of Tver (a city of 200,000) that don't have running water! I believe that Grace came from a family living at an even lower economic status in Kashin.

Dad is such a trooper. He is sick as a dog today. His ear hurt before we left the USA. It was oozing and painful. We got some ear drops – in Russia they sell prescription drugs over the counter, and my sister (the doctor) told us what to ask for. I wrote it down, handed the piece of paper over, and said please in Russian. Worked like a charm. They only cost about $3 and seem to be helping. However, it may have been too late because he is now complaining of a stuffed-up head. He's really tired and takes as many naps as possible today. Maybe the medicine is dilute or different somehow. I hope the doc emails me soon with new instructions on how to care for my patient! It's frustrating because it's 1:00 pm here and 4:00 am in Wisconsin, so I can't call.

2 comments:

Jeana said...

Sounds like you've been doing a lot of adventuring! Way to go!

Have a great time in Moscow! I've got my fingers crossed for a quick court date--and maybe everything will work out for Christy to travel with you for her first trip!

Jeana

Scott P. said...

Kelly, we are so happy for you!! Lisa and I also adopted from this region 6 years ago this last September. If you don't remember me, I am the guy who calibrates all the scales at Huntsman. We also stayed at the Osnabruk Hotel, and adopted Noah in Konakova a region near Tver. Our second trip we stayed at the Marriot you spoke of, very nice. I know what you mean about the poverty levels as compared to say Moscow. If you haven't already, I would suggest that once your home to take Grace to see Dr. Ira Chasnov in DT Chicago, he heads the Childrens Research Triangle and is a specialist in the area of European Adoptions I beleive their website is www.crt.com if not I will find the right one. Dr. Chasnov vistis countries all over the world to help children and parents, especially in the areas of FASD or now known as ARNSD. These are typical of Eurasian adoptions, and they are really the specialist in this area. I don't mean to scare up horrific thoughts in your head, however this is the facts of adoptions in these regions. We used an agency by the name of EAC headquarted in Columbus, Ohio. Is this the same as your agency? Here is my email address:calip1@earthlink.net. We wish you a safe and sane return and of course a beautiful new life for you and Grace.

Take care,

Scott Parker